tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9093496415957506704.post6753747818898737078..comments2023-11-02T08:19:11.826-07:00Comments on Inactive: Just When You Think You Have Made Peace!Melissa Griffinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09576192288846591203noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9093496415957506704.post-10398766328299053552009-02-28T21:52:00.000-08:002009-02-28T21:52:00.000-08:00Amen Tarah!! I try to tell myself this as much as ...Amen Tarah!! I try to tell myself this as much as I can... refreshing to hear it from someone else.<BR/>Melissa, it's true... life is unfair and this possibility of your co-worker being pregnant, is just another example, but when your time comes, you will be on Cloud 9.! I almost went through it myself. But the grass isn't always greener for random preggos. When my co-worker was pregnant (she had a loss), she was unwed to her boyfriend of 6 months, who's 15 years her senior, and he's not even divorced from his last relationship. They were struggling to scramble together a shot gun wedding, buy a new car, and get a place together... she is more broke than a car in a landfill, living on a line of credit... as you can clearly see, she has no brain, so I really would've pitied her and her unborn child had it survived. In fact, I pity all of these young pregnant people for not having an incredible, amazing plan for raising their children like we do/will. I guess that's just the small price we pay to have a better life in the end????Hollisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05818778468709665191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9093496415957506704.post-56086988068973850192009-02-28T18:48:00.000-08:002009-02-28T18:48:00.000-08:00Just do the same thing I did and copy and paste th...Just do the same thing I did and copy and paste the picture onto your blog so everyone knows you got an award :) Happy Weekend!Just Believinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02209860792709070040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9093496415957506704.post-52033638262252945482009-02-28T18:11:00.000-08:002009-02-28T18:11:00.000-08:00I know that is so hard. I have to watch so many pe...I know that is so hard. I have to watch so many people who are not married at work have child after child. There is one girl who has a 11 month old and is getting ready to deliver another any day now...not married and it just sucks. ((HUGS))Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03661220372372737455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9093496415957506704.post-13057129453045006442009-02-28T11:32:00.000-08:002009-02-28T11:32:00.000-08:00Ughhhh I am so so so sorry. I know that awful feel...Ughhhh I am so so so sorry. I know that awful feeling.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00492460456993123159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9093496415957506704.post-50542379269089473202009-02-28T09:51:00.000-08:002009-02-28T09:51:00.000-08:00Melissa, I know how much your heart is bruised and...Melissa, <BR/><BR/>I know how much your heart is bruised and how much it hurts. I know that this very young girl who might be pregnant could never understand the pain. <BR/><BR/>But, I want to share something with you in hopes that it can make your bruises a little less tender. <BR/><BR/>I work in a women's clinic - for every stage of their life! (their motto, not mine) I see them all - young to old. A couple of weeks ago I had a 14 yr old come to my clinic and she was 5 months pregnant. I gasped when I noticed how "young" she was. On my way home from work I was thinking about her and I thought "Really, she's 14 and she gets to be a Mom? What about ME?" <BR/><BR/>You wanna know what makes you and I (and all the other IF ladies) so special? <BR/><BR/>We're not 14 living with our parents. Were not 14 and worrying about how were going to get through school and maybe even college to make a life for you and your child(ren). We're not 14 with a "boyfriend" who we don't know if he' are going to be there tomorrow. So,, even though our journey sucks and it hurts - we are going to be the bigger, better person for having rode this roller coaster. <BR/><BR/>When our baby comes - we will love that baby and appreciate that baby more than that 14 yr old ever could. We are married with jobs and have created a life for ourselves and our future children. We are married to wonderful, loving husbands who love us no matter what. Our situation is so much better than these "young ones". And in my eyes - that makes us the better person and someday Mommy! <BR/><BR/>You are a strong, beautiful, intelligent woman and you are going to make one hell of a Momma. <BR/><BR/>I'm rooting for you and I can't wait for the both of us to experience pregnancy and motherhood. <BR/><BR/>♥ <BR/>T<BR/><BR/>P.S. I hope you don't think I'm making light of your bruises - I know they hurt. But seeing what I saw that day made me feel so much better off then she could ever be. ((HUGS))We have Angel Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14492464889416475299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9093496415957506704.post-32767397413747023452009-02-28T08:36:00.000-08:002009-02-28T08:36:00.000-08:00Ugh, just when we think we've moved one step forwa...Ugh, just when we think we've moved one step forward, BAM! We are shoved back ~ I am so sorry!Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00373349177873839594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9093496415957506704.post-63500174149579970772009-02-27T20:33:00.000-08:002009-02-27T20:33:00.000-08:00I nomintaed you for a blog award!www.wondrafulbaby...I nomintaed you for a blog award!<BR/><BR/>www.wondrafulbaby.blogspot.comJust Believinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02209860792709070040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9093496415957506704.post-91417112590682981372009-02-27T09:42:00.000-08:002009-02-27T09:42:00.000-08:00Oh sweetie, I know all too well that bruised feeli...Oh sweetie, I know all too well that bruised feeling and it aches, but the bruise will heal and you will move forward and you will be a Mommy.Tiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05241128315213210924noreply@blogger.com